You prepared it. One small, specific, genuinely useful thing. You said it kindly. And then their face changed, just slightly, and the room went still, and you heard yourself say it is honestly not a big deal, everyone does it, ignore me, it is fine. Watch that moment closely, because it is not generosity. It is you making your own discomfort stop. Look at what it leaves them holding. They know you have a concern about them. They no longer know what it is, or how serious, or whether you mea...