so this started as pure spite tbh. my fiancée and i were looking at wedding website builders and every single one was either $40 a month for something that looked like it was designed in 2012, or "free" until you actually want to do anything useful. and the thing is we didn't even want much? just a nice page for people to look at, a way for them to RSVP without me building a spreadsheet, and some way to tell everyone what food they're eating without me personally texting 80 people. t...