There is feedback you were given once that you decided was wrong. Do not throw it away. It happens to everyone. Someone tells you that you are too blunt in reviews, or too slow to commit to a decision, or that you go too deep into detail in meetings. You think about it honestly and you conclude they have misread you. Maybe they had. Maybe they were measuring you against themselves, or they caught you on your worst week, or they were repeating something they heard secondhand. So you set it ...